The Unified Energetic model of Emotions - Explained using the 4-phases of life model.

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These 4 groups of emotions (Love, Envy, Hate, revenge) are needed in a competitive world. They are not accidental. They serve the purpose of survival.

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"Before you embark on a journey of revenge, dig two graves."

Confucius (551 BC – 479 BC) was a Chinese teacher, politician, and philosopher. By Simran Khurana (Updated March 18, 2017)

If you look for a uniform definition of emotions, you will find many definitions quite different. Looking at emotions from the neurological aspect of nerve conduction and various chemicals is correct but simplistic. I found no mention of the subconscious and intuition as part of human emotions in many definitions, although they have a significant component. Link: Emotion (Wikipedia) 


Introduction to Emotions and their energetic dimension. 

Treating emotions as energy significantly changes the way you look at them. If you look for a unified model of all emotions, you will find no uniformity. Many attempts with stunning color charts describe the map of emotions and sort them into different categories. None of the classes I found addressed feelings in the energetic dimension — as I think is desirable to do.

  • Paradise is described as the ultimate place where there are only positive emotions. Until we get there (the eternal light), we all occasionally live with negative emotions, preferably as little as possible. In a utopian world, we have always been in the positive cycle that charges the energy of life. In a competitive world with limited resources, many of our interactions are in a negative cycle. The wisdom is to try to balance ourselves and avoid as much as possible the negative cycle that consumes energy from us and makes us sick.


Unsurprisingly, Love, Envy, Hatred, and Revenge are interconnected.

The concept of qi Life-force energy. (Indirectly related to this model.)

The Chinese concept of Qi is not easily translated into Western thought.

"To live is to have Qi in every part of your body." To die is to be a body without Qi. For the health to be maintained, there must be a balance of Qi."

The connection between the body, mind & spirit.

  • Although this connection between body, mind, and spirit has been known for thousands of years, Western culture and medicine have not developed and implemented these ideas.
  • Not everyone is aware that acupuncture is an energetic treatment method that aims to balance life energy essential to a healthy life.
  • All martial arts make exceptional use of life energy. Through practice, they harness the energetic capabilities of doing things that seem impossible!


The four life phases energy flow model.  (Very briefly)

The 4 seasons are just one (of many) examples of cyclic energetic flow.

From the single cell to the entire universe, all the energetic processes in nature are characterized by the cyclic energy flow, consisting of four Phases.

The four phases according to this model: 

  1. Stimulation   
  2. Expansion 
  3. Contraction 
  4. Relaxation 

Prominent examples:

  • Mitosis (Cell division) consists of 4 phases. (Prophase, Metaphase, Anaphase, Telophase.)
  • Body organs: Respiratory system & heartbeat. (Each has 4 phases.) 
  • Seasons: Spring, Summer, Fall, Winter.
  • Life Cycle: Birth, Maturity, Old age, Death. (Applies also for stars!)
  • All Matter has 4 phases: Gas, Liquid, Plasma, and Solid. (Matter and energy have dual properties.) 


The suggested unified energetic model of all emotions. 

Principles of the model: 

  • Energy is always in motion between poles (from positive to negative) and is cyclical. Therefore emotions are also bipolar.
  • Bipolarity means that every emotion has action and response. (In the diagram, the action appears outside the triangle, while the reaction appears inside the triangle.)
  • You can find about 150 adjectives for emotions if you search, but many reflect synonyms. 

Most researchers marked six main categories: anger, fear, joy, love, sadness, and surprise. (In my view, fear is not a controlled emotion - it is an instinct. It exists in all of us to one degree or another.)

Every meaningful and prolonged human interaction places us in one of two cycles: (Indifference is usually a temporary state)

  1. Harmonic positive emotions charge the energy of life.
  2. Disharmonious emotions drain the energy of life.

Intuition has a profound emotional effect, bypassing logic.

  • The mechanism of intuition works through the subconscious. The peculiarity of intuition is a separate path, bypassing logic. A few of our emotions are intuitive, not necessarily with a plausible, logical explanation. Link:  Pineal gland, Intuition, and Akashic records. 

All emotions are characterized by a bipolar form of Action and Reaction.

  • The explanation for this lies in the fact that energy always moves between poles.

Surprise is usually an emotion that does not belong to one of the two cycles.

  • We often are very quickly able to classify it into one of the two cycles. (positive or negative)

Unsurprisingly, there are more negative than positive emotions in regular use.

  • Prominent Harmonic (Positive) emotions:  Love, Hope, Satisfaction, Relief, Optimism, Happiness, Joy, Compassion, Pride, Affection, and Tenderness. 
  • Prominent Disharmonic (Negative) emotions: Hate, Envy, Revenge, Anger, Frustration, Aggression, Disgust, Depression, Dislike, Fury, Rage, Resentment, Disappointment, Humiliation, Insecurity, grief, Isolation, Shame, Guilt, Embarrassment, Hopelessness, Suffering, 

Smile, laughter, crying, sadness, anger, distance, disgust, and astonishment are part of the body language that often betrays our emotions, even without talking. Body language is the physical expression of the energetic cycle we are in.

  • If you laugh and smile a lot, it does not mean that your life is perfect! But you are probably most often in the positive, energetic cycle that charges your life energy.
  • It is pretty implied that someone who cries a lot, is sad, angry, distant, and pensive most of the time, is probably unhappy is more frequent in the cycle of negative emotions that consume the energy of life.
  • Not for nothing; there are laughter workshops! But involuntary or fake laughter is not helpful at all.

Uninterrupted synchronized energy flow - Harmonic emotions. (Positive) Asynchronous energy flow - Disharmonic emotions. (Negative) 

  • Unresolved mental traumas (Negative emotions) are most often stored in the subconscious mind. There is constant energy damage. Suppose the subconscious cannot contain the repressed emotions. The person usually develops diseases (including mental illness) or addictions in such situations.

Positive and negative emotions and truth and falsehood, crying, and laughter are opposites-complementary—reminders of the concept of Yin-Yang in Chinese philosophy.

A prominent example is the transition cycle of hope - disappointment - depression - renewed hope.

Inside the triangle's - reaction, outside - action.

Love, envy, hatred, and revenge are part of a parallel energetic cycle manifested by the 4 phases of life. (Detailed below)

Every significant interpersonal long-term interaction is expressed in one of the two sets. (Triangles) Positive or Negative. An "indifferent" state is usually a temporary state. Good chemistry between people helps us enter the positive cycle, while bad interpersonal chemistry drags us into the negative cycle.

  • Love is a synchronized flow of life-force energy throughout the four phases of life. The negative emotions (envy, hatred, and revenge) result from a life-force energy block in one or more of the 4  phases of life due to a mismatch in interpersonal interaction. (Inevitable phenomenon)
  • The four groups of emotions serve explicit purposes; they are synchronized with the energy of life. Negative emotions are the other side of the same coin.

Paradoxically, negative emotions have a survival purpose, but overload causes a "short-circuit of energy flow."

Positive: (Love, happiness, Hope, optimism, Satisfaction, relief) 

  • Love and all positive emotions charge the energy of life, and it exists when there are no energetic blockages. Without love, people are often unhealthy and unhappy.

Negative: Envy, frustration, Revenge, aggression, hate, anger) 

  • Envy - Although jealousy is perceived as a "bad" thing, it is the primary basis for competition and improving motivation. As in the other negative emotions, jealousy stems from losing control and blind jealousy that turns into hatred and revenge.
  • Hatred- Hate is a warning mechanism - do not come near - you may harm yourself and me. Hate is a powerful emotion, often even more so than love.
  • Revenge - Revenge is a defense mechanism against possible harm by any attacker; the problem is that sometimes revenge goes out of proportion and connects to hatred and envy. A good example can be found in Quentin Tarantino's revenge films.

It's easier for us to forgive someone we love than for someone we do not love.

  • The explanation for the phenomenon involves the energetic synchronization towards someone we love, who activates an energetic charge. Forgiveness allows for a recharge of energy. Jealousy, hatred, and revenge discharge the energy of life.

In all cultures and religions, you will find (quite similar) stories about love, jealousy, hatred, and revenge. This is, of course, no coincidence!

  • The energetic blockages gradually shift to the subconscious, where routine psychological treatments can not penetrate. Forgiveness, mercy, and absolution require extraordinary transcendence that often requires spiritual "enlightenment."
  • Envy, hatred, and revenge are evidence of energy blockage. This is an almost inevitable phenomenon, but it severely harms our health.
  • If you look at developed mammals, you can detect the same four groups of emotions: love, envy, hatred, and revenge because every living creature has 4 four phases of life.


Negative emotions disrupt our energy flow. We try to avoid people who cause us negative emotions because they consume our life-force energy.

How love, envy, hatred, and revenge are interconnected? 

In a utopian world with unlimited resources available to everyone, one would expect only positive emotions. In reality, every child already feels all four of these groups of emotions.

  • The arguments I present are unconventional and come from the human body's energetic conception, which sees the body as a dual, physical, and energetic entity.
  • In the energetic translation, good interpersonal chemistry is a synchronized flow of life-force energy. When it comes to a romantic relationship or family relationship or people who are very dear to our hearts, we often call it love!
  • A person who will cause us a disturbance in the proper flow of energy in our body may develop towards them one of the three negative possibilities of deep emotion: envy, hatred, and revenge—each individually or all together.
  • Developed mammals such as monkeys exhibit the same emotions as humans experience. This is not an accidental situation; the four feelings inevitably result from the energetic flow.


Vortex Math and Numerology.

Love has tremendously manifested by radiating life-force (qi) energy.

The theory behind the method is a bit complex and has fascinating mathematical elements. According to this method, the digits are assigned to each word and are summed up to reduce a single-digit number from 1-to 9. LOVE = ENERGY (-9) Positive pole. 

  • An example of how to calculate for LOVE. (If you perform a calculation for the value "Money," - you will receive the same answer!) 
  • The number 9, located at the top of the triangle, is considered the highest energy level of the negative (giving) pole. 
    • LOVE (In numbers)  L  = 3 | O = 6 | V = 4 | E = 5 | 3 + 6+ 4+ 5 = 18 | 1+ 8 = 9 


Vortex Math Part 1 and 2 Nikola Tesla 3 6 9 The Key To Universe. (Especially intriguing)

Two familiar examples illustrate the energetic connection of human behavior with its interactions.

Lies are a behavioral-emotional defense mechanism. To lie, it is necessary to activate energy associated with the cycle of negative emotions.

Truth and falsehood have a distinct energetic mechanism with an emotional connection. 

  • Lies exist at all ages! We lie occasionally; the differences are in intensity, audacity, daring, and dosage.
  • Truth is sometimes excruciating, but it does not consume energy as lies require.
  • Significant lies require sophisticated and sometimes very creative thinking not to reveal the truth. Lies consume a lot of energy. Scammers and crooks who lie subtly are considered not in vain, knowledgeable people.

Lies consume energy. Truth does not charge energy, but neither does it consume energy. Therefore lies are identified with the circle of negative emotions while the truth with the positive emotional cycle.


An explanation of the four main phases in any Argument. (Argument is an example of behavior mixed with emotions) Using the four phases of the life model.

All the energetic processes in nature, from the single cell to the entire universe, are characterized by the cyclic energy flow, consisting of four Phases. 

Any argument carries energy and is characterized by the same four phases:

  1. Stimulation   ⇒ The trigger that ignites the argument. (Sometimes, these are small and marginal things)
  2. Expansion     ⇒ The vocal phase of the fight, unilateral or bilateral.
  3. Contraction  ⇒ The stage where an argument is stopped, not necessarily because of consent.
  4. Relaxation    ⇒ The calming phase after discussions.

Prominent examples of the four phases of life model:

  • Mitosis (Cell division) consists of 4 phases. (Prophase, Metaphase, Anaphase, Telophase.)
  • Body organs: Respiratory system & heartbeat. (Each has 4 phases.) 
  • Seasons: Spring, Summer, Fall, Winter.
  • Life Cycle: Birth, Maturity, Old age, Death. (Applies also for stars!)
  • All Matter has 4 phases: Gas, Liquid, Plasma, and Solid. (Matter and energy have dual properties.) 

What are people arguing about?

  • Quarrels and disagreements exist on a wide variety of topics: home, family, children, burden inequality, jealousy, and many other diverse subjects. But to sum it all up, disagreements and quarrels are primarily about control, love, power, resources, and priorities.

When does an argument become harmful?

  • Arguments become harmful when they form sediment. In most languages, there is a word for deep anger and dissatisfaction. Anger has a much more profound and hurtful effect than temporary dissatisfaction.

When is there a disconnect between people at the emotional-energetic level?

  • An emotional-energetic disconnect is usually the result of a constant entry into the negative cycle of emotions that discharge life's energy. The disconnect is a defense mechanism!


The perception of emotions, personality, behavior, and intuition as a flow of energy.

The energetic cycle of Emotions, Personality, Behavior, and Intuition. image 1

Emotions, personality, behavior, and intuition are part of the same energetic cycle. (Huge topic)

The four phases  with their respective energy cycle according to this model: 

  1. Stimulation   ⇒ Emotions.
  2. Expansion     ⇒ Personality.
  3. Contraction  ⇒ Behaviour
  4. Relaxation    ⇒ Intuition. (Subconsciously)

This cycle is characterized by 4 phases affected by heredity and the environment. (Not in the focus of this article)

This article places a significant emphasis on the energetic side of emotions. Many mental diseases and disorders regarding emotion, personality, and behavior are nothing but energetic blockages! Modern medicine prefers to treat them mainly through pharmacological and psychoanalysis treatment. It is a vast topic, bordering on psychology and psychiatry, that this article does not address.


The perception of emotions, personality, behavior, and intuition as a flow of energy will significantly change the perspective of the behavioral sciences.

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