Love is ageless. It has no boundaries. It is not only between men and women but in every possible configuration. Love is independent of culture, color, race, religion, language, or country!
The ability to recover miraculously increases when the patient finds love and support.
Compassionate nurse syndrome stories are often very romantic.
- The stories about the wounded soldier who married the nurse are often described in movies and are described as compassionate nurse syndrome.
- In severe distress, physical and emotional support for the patient has deep meaning for both parties.
- Both the giving side and the receiving side are donated! As a result, the patient receives support, understanding, and love, and the generous side receives gratitude and emotional commitment.
Unlike movies where the injured are usually young, chronic illnesses are not romantic!
Chronic illnesses often involve great suffering and sacrifice on the healthy spouse.
- Although some chronic diseases break out in adolescence, the most common chronic diseases break 45-50 and up. At these ages, most people live in a relationship. (Not necessarily marriage)
- When one spouse has a chronic illness, the relationship is usually not based on "sexual love" because chronic patients' sexual abilities are often inadequate.
- After endless treatments and a prolonged stay in China for 13 years, I found a Chinese woman's support and love. Had it not been for this love, I would not have survived the disease!
Unfortunately, coping with a spouse's long-term illness is quite common in the modern age.
The question of how to behave with a sick spouse is a question that few talk about.
- Living with a spouse who suffers from a prolonged chronic illness is the ultimate test of any relationship, not just sexuality. Chronic diseases usually intensify the relationship, positive or negative. Some couples strengthen their bond during sickness, but other relationships may not survive. The decision to stay together is a joint decision between the two partners, but the healthy spouse must not feel as if he is making a painful sacrifice.
- Many years ago, a naturopathic therapist told me that if the emotional connection between the couple before the prolonged outbreak of the disease were excellent, the relationship would only deepen. And if the bond weren't proper, it probably wouldn't survive either! (I'm not an expert in the field; I believe she was right.)
Prolonged betrayal of the healthy spouse is not only sexual but emotional abandonment!
- The sick spouse, usually aware of the infidelity, sometimes consciously ignores it to avoid conflict with the spouse "doing him or her a favor" by staying with them. But the patient pays for it an energetic price of "humiliation" and a feeling of inferiority.
- As a severe chronic Liver-kidney patient, after many years of struggling with survival, including prolonged treatments in China on my own, I felt that there was no longer any emotional connection between my wife and me, but only an economic relationship. I realized that I had to end a long marriage despite the difficulties. The decision is, of course, individual as everyone is in a different situation.
- I admit that I gained courage only when I felt I was in the advanced recovery stages. Divorce and separation can deplete the life-force energy; it is advisable to avoid conflicts for patients in severe conditions.
- Despite the many difficulties of getting divorced at an older age, I am happy with my decision. But, at the same time, it is a personal decision that others cannot deduce.
Continue reading the entire article: The tremendous healing power of LOVE.
Love is ageless. It has no boundaries. It is not only between men and women but in every possible configuration. It has no culture, color, race, religion, language, or country!