Discussion: I avoid sex due to my erection problems, and I feel that our relationship is entirely loosened.

The touch of the bodies is of enormous importance in the emotional-energetic connection. Even if you have erection problems, it is possible to fill the cavity with other means, such as humping the penis in the area above the buttocks (preferably with a water-based lubricant) between the thighs or between the breasts. Oral sex is most often stimulating and satisfying sex, whose primary barrier is shame! You must also initiate and satisfy your wife in every possible way except penetration. Loss of touch, caresses, kisses, affection, and compliments are tested ways to sever the emotional-energetic bond. It is essential to emphasize that it is best if the healthy spouse takes the initiative.

Link: Improving sexual function In chronic patients and the disabled.
https://www.sf-healing.com/page/224 (Copy & Paste)