Discussion: Are threats of divorce self-fulfilling?

Threats of divorce are often part of conflicts that reach the stage of threats that if you don't do as I please, I initiate divorce. Conflicts also exist between couples who live good marital lives, but the threat of divorce is a "doomsday weapon." It indicates a violent verbal relationship that is very difficult to repair and, indeed, usually also has a high potential for fulfillment. Couples who have a good relationship often avoid using such language