Discussion: Single men and women in their 30s who find themselves alone and without a stable relationship should ask themselves whether the bar they set for their ideal partner is realistic.

You can find today in the modern world many young, successful, intelligent, and beautiful people who cannot maintain stable relationships over time. Part of the explanation stems from a modern individualistic culture driven by images of the ideal relationship, which are unrealistic. The Knight on the White Horse exists only in legends, and Cinderella stories exist only in movies. Love is real, but the ideal partner for you can also be a teacher or assistant to a dentist and not necessarily some computer genius or intelligent and stunning beauty.