Discussion: I am 44 years old with a history of vaginismus for 20 years or more. I went to a sexologist who recommended treatment with a surrogate (very expensive), but nothing helped. I'm desperate!

Vaginismus is a phenomenon that creates a vicious cycle that prevents deep ties. Vaginismus is usually the result of unresolved mental trauma, sometimes from a sexual assault background, and essential trust and existential anxiety issues. Although expressing the phenomenon is sexual, it is a mental state requiring more rooting than a surrogate offers. Treatment of involuntary contraction of the vagina involves treatment that penetrates the Subconscious, such as hypnosis. It is necessary to eliminate (not to forget) the traumatic event, which is often hidden deep inside. Deep love with a supportive man is preferred but challenging to find!

Link: Hypnosis is a unique subconscious-penetrating procedure.
https://www.sf-healing.com/page/247 (Copy & Paste)