Discussion: I am a 48-year-old married man to an attractive 45-year-old woman. I saw my wife masturbating in secret! I asked her to masturbate in my presence, but she refused and said she was uncomfortable.

Marriage does not remove all barriers and stigmas on sex issues. Masturbation is seen by many as something that should be done alone. Couples who realize mutual fantasies usually have excellent communication and a deep emotional connection that produces a sense of security and relaxation.