Discussion: I am a 50-year-old man. My 48-year-old wife sometimes watches pornographic movies on her tablet. I asked her to watch pornographic movies together, and she refused. Is she ashamed of me?

It is easier for most people and married couples to fantasize about sweeping sex with an imaginary (or tangible) partner in particularly endearing sex scenes. There is a natural fear that the spouse will refuse and a feeling of shame. Unsurprisingly, shame also exists in married couples. Watching pornographic movies together requires a deep emotional connection, trust, and tranquility. Encourages you to have an honest conversation with your wife.