Discussion: I am a handsome 45-year-old divorcee and have a 38-year-old boyfriend. The life expectancy of women is longer. In my opinion, this should have been the trend and not older men with young women!

The argument you make is valid, of course. On the other hand, men will say that they can have children at 60 or more, while in women, fertility lasts only until the age of 45-50. The entrenched cultural norms of older men with young women are in retreat, and the phenomenon still exists, sometimes against the background of the exploitation of economic distress. The case you present is not unusual, and there will likely be more similar cases in the future; stigmas are consistently broken in the modern world.