Discussion: I'm a 40-year-old divorcee. I met the man I thought would be my husband. He demanded BDSM sex from me. I cooperated with him to please him, but I did not enjoy it.

Sex, in its various forms, is a form of emotional and physical communication. Couples who have love and good verbal communication between them often also tend to satisfy the sexual needs of their spouses, but not at any cost! And provided they do not feel harmed or humiliated. I encourage you to have a pre-planned conversation with your partner in a quiet and romantic atmosphere where you will match mutual expectations. BDSM sex scenes aren't for everyone, and you have to take into account that you may not agree.