Discussion: I am married, 48 years old, and not happy. I got married at the age of 20 out of intense sexual attraction but without love. The sexual attraction has dissipated, and I feel we are not suitable!

Sexual attraction and love are not necessarily the same thing. Love is an intense emotional and energetic bond. Sexual attraction without love and a deep emotional connection sometimes dissipates. Some couples have both sexual attraction and deep love, but they are probably not the majority! Otherwise, there would have been no divorce at such high rates. I encourage you to have a well-planned conversation with your husband in a quiet and relaxed atmosphere. Sometimes, the answers come naturally.