Discussion: My husband does not help me with household chores, and I, on my friends' advice, prevent him from having sex. The question is, is this a good and recommended way?

I reply to you from a man's point of view; women may react differently. I do not justify your husband not sharing household duties. At the same time, you also punish yourself. Besides, you give your husband the legitimacy to look for sex elsewhere, even though you may not mean it. Unfortunately, I have no better advice besides talking and trying to bridge and agree upon mutual expectations.