Discussion: We have been married for 10 years. I recently noticed that my wife is watching lesbian porn movies. Is she a lesbian too?

The possibility cannot be ruled out. However, sexual behavior and sexual fantasies do not necessarily indicate sexual orientation. Most married women had boyfriends before marriage. Lesbians (who have not come out of the closet) usually do not have previous boyfriends, so a perusal of the photo album and memories from the past can answer your question. It is possible (and also desirable) to ask your spouse directly. I understand that this is an embarrassing but sometimes inevitable question. If you still do not have a clear answer after searching your wife's history for the existence of previous boyfriends, it is advisable to initiate a pre-planned conversation in a calm and quiet place.

Link: The Unifying Model of All Sexual Identities and Orientations.
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