Discussion: I am 35 years old and have been married for 8 years. I recently revealed to my husband that I am bisexual. He asked me to watch me have sex with my female sex partner.

Men often perceive sexual infidelity only when it occurs with another man. In bisexuals, cheating may occur with a member of the same sex. To your husband, it's a fantasy fulfillment, but it's breaking the emotional and energetic bond between the couple. If the marriage is dear to you, I advise you not to agree to your husband's offer/request.